Kids / Marriage

Whom to Marry?

Today’s is a special, family friendly, Canadian Thanksgiving blog. My fabulous ma, retired teacher of thirty years, sent me this email forward on marriage yesterday. I especially like the last one. HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHOM TO MARRY? (written by kids) You have to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she … Continue reading

Marriage / porn / Relationships / Sex / women

Why Elizabeth Gilbert Has Me Thinking About Porn

I’m currently reading Elizabeth Gilbert’s much-dissed Committed and I must say I’m enjoying it. So far what’s resonating with me most is the not-new idea that marriages based on love are incredibly volatile, as opposed to marriages, say, predicated on class and obligation. Two years into my love-based marriage, I’d be daft to comment on … Continue reading